Single on Valentine’s?
Here are 8 ways to curate long lasting self-love on and after valentines day. Lucky number 8 symbolises harmony and balance, it brings inner strength and determination. Representing infinity, it is also an extremely lucky number.
Galentines is definitely a trending thing right now. Some trends are truly good for us if we allow it to be.
I personally, am not bothered about the day too much. The way I see it, you cannot miss something you never had. Saying that, I love love. I love to give hugs, treat, people well, cook and more.
Love in every form deserves to be celebrated.
Since I do not have a significant other (a man, a bae, a partner) these are things I have done in the past and will be doing this year; and I am pretty excited! Why don’t you join me?
- Continuously place yourself in positive spaces.
Surround yourself with other like-minded single women full of love.
I will be going to a Galentines event on valentine’s day . This is the brain child of Blogger extraordinaire Chloe Pierre
I am pretty excited to immerse myself in a copious supply of feminine energy on valentines day. I suggest you find a similar space for you. If you would like to attend buy tickets here. I already feel very powerful in my own being. Just imagine how I’m going feel once we all merge the sisterly love. Use this as a way to lift yourself up and forget about your waste man archives.
- Date Yourself
Yes, you that ‘B’ like they say on Instagram. You keep saying this to you friends as a joke. It’s time to take yourself seriously. Yes babe, you!!
I personally do it all the time. Going to the cinema on my own is my personal favourite. You could take yourself to dinner, buy yourself flowers, chocolates or plantain chips. Whatever makes you happy sis.
- Listen to your gut feeling – Basically trust yourself more.
- Pamper yourself (self-care)
I am not boasting but call me the self-care queen. I am not just talking about my bulk buys of sheet masks from Superdrug. (You can judge me I am shameless in my obsession). I am talking about little things like getting you hair and nails done regularly.
Spa days, creating loving spaces like being around your best friend could pamper your soul. Don’t let the ‘I’m so busy’ keep you from replenishing your soul. (I can expand on more ways to replenish in another post). Comment and let me know.
- Buy yourself lingerie
I personally recommend buying lingerie even if you are single. Babe do you know how hot you’re gona look with that cheeky number on? Once you love it the rest will follow. Wear it under your clothes to work. Take a little break from your desk, pop in the loo(toilet). Choose a cubicle with a mirror and flash yourself babe. It’s your little secret to yourself.
Places to get plus size lingerie:
- Eat well
Choose foods that nourish your body and make you feel good. Everybody’s feel good and eat well is subjective. I encourage you find out what yours may be.
- Talk to yourself loudly
I do this thing where I have little 2-minute conversation in the mirror every morning. I positively overwhelm myself with compliments. Try it when you flash Yourself in the loo (toilet)Try it. Let me know how it goes. Choose a specific time though so you can create a routine.
- Take a body empowerment dance class.
Yes! Go crush on yourself.
This is a regular thing for me. So I have been putting in the work honey.
Thecurvecatwalk dance class is soo special to me. Tri has no idea how much it has added to my ‘I am sexy’ confidence. I hope you guys know that their are various levels and types of confidence. What I have learnt is, the term ‘I am working on me’ is such a blanket statement to achieving self love (let me know if you like me to write a separate blogpost on this).
This class or the class you choose will help you own your body’s sex appeal and presence. If you don’t believe me. Have a look at my latest pictures on my Instagram @tenipascal.
Have you done any of these before? Will you try any of these?
Let me know in the comments below.
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